Single Again.....And Apt To Stay That Way

Well folks this girl is single again. I been thinking about it for awhile. I wasn't married yet. But I was engaged. Guy was living with me. He wanted me to get on his cell phone plan. So I did. He put the home phone and internet on. The rest of the bills were in my name thank God. It just means if you break up more to change.

I had lived alone for two years after Jeff and I broke up. And then I met Guy. It was okay at first . He was working in the oil field and was gone for 30 days at a time. I missed him. Back in September of last year he got fired. He started drawing unemployment. He was off work just sitting underfoot and that was when the problems started.

He hadn't been very truthful saying he didn't watch TV. He wasn't lazy. Off work all he wanted to do was watch TV or get on his cell phone and get on face book. No yard work. He didn't even go out the front door. It is hard on anyone being around someone 24-7. What happens when they retire?

That got me to thinking. I was engaged to him. When we were in Sweetwater I had to have the laser surgery for the kidney stone. Then I had a stent. most painful thing I ever had in my life. I was so sick I could hardly eat and I lay in bed for three weeks losing weight I didn't need to lose. He did  try to bring me something to eat. Most of the time he sat out in his Jeep in the garage talking on the phone and drinking.

I took the cowards way out and I left one day while he was gone to Abilene. I couldn't take no more. My son helped me to move back to Fort Worth. It sure wasn't easy with the stent. After I got back I went to a urologist and finally got the stent out.

To make  a long story short I ended up letting him come back. I like my privacy though. I would be in my office and he would come up behind me wondering what I was doing. A bright cheery "Good Morning" which I didn't want to hear.

I like to go out to my family room alone of the morning. Get my paper and my orange juice .I got three sets of French doors and two windows. I love the sunshine. Guy was just the opposite. At night he wanted to be in total darkness. We just didn't agree on anything.

It took me awhile but finally I decided it was enough. I told him he had to leave. I stayed at Jana's the first night where he could get his stuff and go. I didn't want any confrontations. That was two days ago. So many texts. He didn't take no for an answer. Finally tonight he got it that I wasn't going back. He went ballistic.

He had my cell phone and home phone cut off. That is okay. I can do without them tonight. I will go get me one of both tomorrow. How could someone you think you know treat you like that?His true colors came out.