I did grow up in Sweetwater and I have fond memories about living there until 1989. I have tried going back a few times too but I guess I got used to the big city and cant get used to the small town. I still like to visit though and last summer I had a nice visit with my daughter and her kids. I plan on going down this next weekend too.
I was a member of the group "I Grew Up In Sweetwater" . I don't even know when I joined it but it was long ago. One day I noticed I was the administrator. The lady who had it left I guess and left me the administrator. I did it alone for a long time and then Chris Davidson ask me if he could join me. I let him. He knew how to do a lot of things I didn't and I have to admit he added to the group. I was almost like the silent partner. I added people or if needed I deleted people. Answered a few questions or participated if it was something I knew about.
A couple of weeks ago my daughter put on about the house fire we had back in 83'. That was fine. I listened to the people saying they remembered it and sympathizing with her about all of it. She never mentioned the rest of the family at all. Just how it was so bad for her. She said s few things that was not true. For instance her and Julie were very close. They were not. Melanie was not close to any of her brothers or sisters. Then she said how she played with Kelly Mc Gowan who lived across the street. Melanie was almost 14. Kelly was 7. Julie was 9. Kelly and Julie were good friends. She might have went over there now and then but I don't think she played with her at almost 14. Most of what she said was to get attention and after 5 days I took it off. Most stories are thru by then anyway but she kept prolonging it. I didn't think that was wrong of me to do that. I really don't like to hear about such a traumatic time for me. But to hear Melanie tell it she was the one it bothered the most. I believe it is worse on a parent to lose a child than it is on a sister.
Anyway I felt like I let her have her say on there. It was over. I didn't think anymore about it. Not...I got a message from Chris on Saturday night telling me I was off the group because people were complaining about me editing and deleting some things they were saying. I knew instantly who was complaining. I never took anyone's stuff off besides that and I thought it had run it's course. If they were complaining why did Chris not tell me, where we could resolve this. He never said anything one time. Just take me off after the fact and send me a message. Is that how you treat your co administrator after years? I would never have done that without a warning or anything. I didn't know he could take me off when I was there before him. Chris says it wasn't her but I know it was.
On Christmas Eve she sends me a text saying Merry Christmas and she is all alone. She wishes we could get along. I told her Merry Christmas back and I wish we could too. (You would have to understand our relationship to know how I feel. She was here a few months ago and left after cussing me. She has attacked me before.) This particular night all of a sudden she started telling me I was the most cruel , heartless bitch and poor excuse for a Mother. Yet she didn't raise any of her kids. Why wasn't she trying to talk to her kids? Then she proceeded to tell me I was getting old, I might not live too much longer . Hurry up, she says. Who tells your Mother that especially on Christmas Eve?Then she tried to tell my other kids I started a bunch of crap with her. They did not believe her. I get along with my other kids.
I guess because none of that worked she sent Chris messages trying to get me off of the group. I don't know what she said but she succeeded. I just want everyone to know what happened. I am sure you will hear other versions. Chris said I could get on and say I was leaving because I had other obligations. That is not the truth. I do not lie. This is my version and it is a true one.
He sent Melanie a message which he sent to me too. Telling her I was no longer on there and she could post anytime she wants too. It would never disappear. So I am sure she will have a good time. I no longer care. Let her. It just really hurt my feelings after all this time we were co administrators he could get me off when I was the one who put him on. And he could believe my daughter over me.
This is my story and I am sticking to it.....
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