Monday, August 17, 2015

Girls Are Catty.....Some Women Are Too

My daughter, Jana has always told me girls are catty. I never agreed with her because I have had some really good friends back when I lived in Sweetwater. I really haven't had many (what you would really call a friend) here in Fort Worth even though I have been here for 26 years. Acquaintances but not good friends.

We moved here when Jana was 5 years old so she really don't know about the small town friends. She has had some friends off and on but not really close friends that you might be friends for life. She had more friends with guys than she has with girls. I have a couple of guy friends here and in Sweetwater I guess I didn't have friends that were guys. That is kind of weird now that I think of it.

My best friend that I had since I went to Roby High School in 9th was Jane Denton and she died a few years back. We had kept in contact all these years. That was kind of hard because back when I was a teenager we moved a lot. Then after my first marriage we moved a lot too. Somehow I ended up in San Angelo after my first marriage ended. Jane lived there and we lived together. I had four kids and she had two. I watched all the kids while she worked. Our arrangement was very good at the time. Later I moved to Sweetwater.

In Sweetwater I met a girl after I got remarried. Our husbands worked together. We were just as close as two friends could be. She was there for me when my kids were born. When my house burned down she was there . I thought she always would be. She moved away but we still kept in contact. I moved here and she came down a couple of times to my house here. We talked on facebook and texted on the phone.

One day I noticed after I had went back to Guy she wasn't liking everything I put on facebook like she used too. She wasn't saying anything at all. She would get on my exes timeline though and like everything he said plus comment on it. Congratulating him on everything he did. I would think my friend would be here for me , not my ex. I guess I figured wrong. I would have never done that to her. Doesn't she know there was a reason I broke up with my ex? I unfriended her. That is nice to have that button to push when we want too.

I am inclined to agree with my daughter....Some women are catty.

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